Conversation With Neighbor Who Has New Pit Bull

     Well, I did it.  Yup, I had that conversation that Ive been wanting to have with my neighbor who recently acquired another pit bull.  If youve been following my blog at all, you know that my neighbor just got another pit bull, after his former  one died fairly recently.  The former one was old, about 13 years, and my neighbor had to put him down. One day, most recently, another pit bull showed up in his back yard, barking and staring out the gate.  Ive been wanting to have a conversation about this with him, in a very civil way (have to get along with neighbors), to ensure that we are all kept safe.  The reason for this is because his former pit bull, Zeus, had once gotten into MY backyard by jumping onto something he had stacked against the 7 foot wall, and leaped right over into my yard. I didnt have my dog yet at that time, and luckily my cats were safely indoors that night.  I wont name names, but for the sake of easier writing, well call my neighbor Joe and his pit bull, Blue.
     So, Ive previously stated that the next time I see Joe outside, Id plan to have a conversation with him about safety. I saw him outside this afternoon, bringing in his trash cans, while I was headed to training class with Jade.  So I took the opportunity.  I started with small talk asking how hes been doing and how hes feeling, etc.  Joe is also disabled.  We spent a few minutes on small talk and then I got down to it.  I said, "I saw you got a new dog, Joe." He said, "Yea, I need the companionship." I asked him why he chose another pit bull, and he said that he got it from his wifes son, who couldnt keep him anymore because he was moving. Joe said, "He was one of those young thugs, who just wanted to be tough by getting a pit bull, and then didnt know how to handle him....he abused him and treated him like crap, beating on him and punishing him....he didnt know what the hell he was doing, so I got him." I went on to tell Joe that Im afraid of pit bulls and those dogs are really dangerous."  Joe said that he understood that, and a lot of people feel the same way.  He also went on to say that the media helps to instill that fear in people by always reporting about pit bull attacks and bites (the same old pit bull owner excuses, blame the media, bla bla). I said, "Yea, Joe, but did you see what happened to the elderly lady the other day....it was on the news....she was brutally attacked and mauled....there are a lot of those stories, Joe! Those dogs are always attacking and hurting people and other pets." Joe said, and this surprised me, "They certainly have the potential, thats for sure....theyre really strong dogs and you really have to know what youre doing to have one." I was so glad Joe said that.  Its usually excuses and denials about the power and potential that pit bulls have by their owners, so this made me feel relieved.  Joe also went on to say that hes had pit bulls all his life and he knows what hes doing.  I let him know that I am still afraid of it, and of all pit bulls and for good reason.  I said, "Please dont let him get over that wall into my yard, Joe....remember when your other pit got over that wall and into my yard? Please dont let that happen." Joe smiled and said, "No, hes not gonna get over there, Ill make sure of that." He went on to say how friendly his pit is, but then in another breath said that he was afraid of people because hed been abused, which didnt make any sense to me.  Another walking contradiction of a pit owner.
     So we talked a little more and I repeated myself about not letting his dog get over the wall into my backyard, and he clearly stated that he wouldnt let that happen.  I told him that Im afraid of pit bulls because theyre always mauling and maiming people, even killing.  I also told Joe that his pit bull might very well "bite" him.  I said, "You better be careful Joe, because those dogs are known for turning on their owners.  He might just tear you up, better be careful." Joe replied with, "Oh, hes NOT gonna bite me!" Ok, well see.  Im sure thats exactly what Darla Napora said too, right before her pit bull attacked, mauled and killed her, and her unborn baby.  Joe also said that he cant let his dog outside the front door, because when he opens it, the dog bolts running for freedom.  Just wonderful! He said he had to chase him a couple streets down the other day, but if he does it again, he might just let him be free and let the pound pick him up.  Wow! Thats just great! If I see that dog out, EVER, I will call 911. If it comes in my yard, were going to have very serious problems.  Thats why I had the conversation with Joe; so if it does happen, there wont be any misunderstandings.
     The conversation with Joe, my neighbor has been had.  So well see how everything plays out.  Thanks for listening.



(Although this is not Joes dog, its a pit bull, and its damn scary!)


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